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The Tech Files: Online Cheating

We hear stories all the time about women catching their partners talking to other women online. We’re not being sexist, we’re relaying real stories and unfortunately, the majority of these

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The Tech Files: Texting Your Ex

Staying in contact with an ex is, for the majority of people, fraught with issues. It’s not necessarily only negative breakups that cause the most stress, even splitting up on

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How to tackle your loneliness

There’s a lot of talk about loneliness these days. It used to be an unfortunate accompaniment to old age, something that showed up overnight with the death of a loved

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What relationship hang-ups do you have?

It’s unlikely you’ll be surprised to find out there are very few personal hang-ups which affect dating as much as age and weight.  These topics infiltrate nearly every area of

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Ghosting, what you need to know

Ghosting appears, ironically, to be something that has sprung up out of nowhere these past few years. It’s likely been around for decades, but as the ways in which we

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5 Ways to improve your dating profile this Valentine’s Day

If your gift to yourself this Valentine’s Day is to get serious about your dating life, then one of the easiest steps to take is sorting out your dating profile.

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Help, my ex lives across the road!

Breaking up with someone is difficult at the best of times; the pain, anguish and uncertainty of what the future holds can be overwhelming. It’s common to hear

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Sorry, but you’re not ready for love

We meet a lot of people in this line of business, from the desperately seeking to the nonchalantly hoping. As many of you know, we don't take on

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How can we help you?

If you’ve been following our blog for the past few years you’ll know we’ve covered a multitude of different topics, guiding both men and women through the world of dating.

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Christmas gifts for you lover

It’s that time of year again!  That time to declare you’re not buying anyone a gift, before turning around and diving head-first into the festive commercialism.  Try not to feel

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Is now the right time to have children with her?

At some point in a serious relationship, the majority of men will need to make a decision about whether or not having children is on the cards.  Depending on personal

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Is he the right man to have children with?

There may be some of you women out here who, whilst looking for a life partner, are also weighing up the possibility of having children. Whether you feel becoming a

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4 Things you should know before marriage

Deciding to tie the knot is an exciting time in any person’s life.  Marriage, ignoring all the bad press it gets, is about declaring your love for one another and

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Benefits and Drawbacks of Being Single

Being single can be seen as a blessing or a curse. If you're fresh out of a relationship and still nursing some wounds, you might spend a lot of your

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Social media: see the person, not the profile

So, fabulous news, you’ve met someone using a matchmaker or you’ve struck lucky on a night out. Back in the day, before the first date, there would be masses of

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So, you think she’s the one…

Unfortunately in the dating world we can become so accustomed to meeting love interests that don’t work out, or partners who quickly disappoint us, that when someone truly wonderful shows

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All summer, zero romance

The rain is becoming slightly more frequent and you’re reaching for your autumn wardrobe more and more, it’s also now painfully obvious that the summer romance you had hoped for

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Does she love you or your wallet?

We work with a lot of wealthy men in our business, men who have high value of assets, high public profiles and a lot to lose by investing emotionally in

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5 Ways to get a woman in the mood

Most people know foreplay isn’t something that only happens in the twenty minutes before sex.  Getting a woman in the mood to be intimate involves a lot more effort and

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Why finding love feels harder over 30

As we get older the search for love, when we’re not already partnered up and happy, can feel like an uphill climb.  The fears are similar for both sexes; the

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4 Signs that you need to emotionally reconnect with your partner

Relationships when they first begin can be all-consuming.  Couples want to spend every moment together, know everything about each other, love through the thick and thin, support through the amazing

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Women: 5 Things to NEVER say on a first date

We’ve let the men know what 5 things to never say on a first date and so now ladies it’s your turn!  Whilst some of the inadvisable statements and questions

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Men: 5 Things to NEVER say on a first date

Knowing what to say on a first date can be daunting, especially when coupled with the fear of having to sit through awkward silences and having nothing in common.  Sometimes

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Ladies, this is what he wants from a woman…

If you’ve been single a while, or are recently getting back into the dating world, you may be wondering exactly what it is men are seeking in 2018.  It has

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Guys, this is what she means when she says she wants a real man…

You may be familiar with hearing phrases such as, ‘I just want a real man’ or ‘I just want someone decent’ when women are asked what they want from a

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It’s All Happening Online, Why Would I Want A Matchmaker?

When it comes to the public perception of matchmakers, there are some wildly out-dated visions conjured up in people’s minds. The image of an elderly lady flicking through old-style roller

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What To Do When Your Values Differ From Your Partner’s

These days our requirements for a partner can be extensive. As we become more confident in asking for the things we want in life and as we witness the ever-growing

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When Can I Get Comfortable In A Relationship?

There is always something in relationships to keep us guessing, such as ‘is this the one?’ or ‘is it too early to admit I eat toast in the shower?’.  Getting

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Does Your Independence Get In The Way Of Your Dating Life?

One of the things we hear from the successful women who join our agency is that they intimidate men.  The partners that they find interesting and attractive consistently appear put

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Single? How To Manifest Love This Valentine’s Day

If you’re single this Valentine’s Day then we have a very exciting activity on the cards for you.  Yes, you heard right, we have an evening planned that means you

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Men – The Questions Your Valentine’s Blind Date Really Wants To Ask You.

People are usually on their best behaviour when it comes to first dates.  Filled with a whole gamut of emotions, even the most confident of us are likely to be

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Have You Planned For Love?

When we’re single it’s very easy to not do a lot of things because we don’t yet have a partner.  It’s as though suddenly, a whole portion of the world

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New love, Same You

There is a tendency at this time of year for people to go a little wild with their motivation.  Suddenly endeavours which have always appeared out of reach or unsustainable

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Do You Really Need To Make New Year Resolutions?

Before you get out your pen and paper this year and follow through with the blind pursuit of making New Year resolutions, ask yourself this, do I really need to?

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Notes to take if you’re lonely this Christmas

In case you haven’t noticed, the world is full swing into this festive period and you, my dear, are coming along for the reindeer ride. From simple pleasantries, such as

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Thinking About A Workplace Romance?

Aside from your home, the next place you most likely spend the majority of your time is at work.  For this reason, the possibility of meeting someone who’s a good

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How To Manage Your Ex And Your New Relationship

In an ideal world, breaking up with someone would be clean cut and hassle-free. People would admit and accept they're not compatible, then move on with their lives.  In reality

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When Love Is A One-Way Street

Being in love is almost universally accepted as one of the most exciting and pleasurable states we can be in.  Unfortunately, it’s also acknowledged as one of the hardest, most

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5 Rules For Making Up After An Argument

Arguing, disagreeing, bickering, whatever you want to call it, happens in all relationships. It’s easy to do, easy to say the wrong thing without thinking, easy to half deal with

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Help, My Partner Behaves Like A Child

We all have roles to play in our relationships and over time they can become fixed.  Good guy or bad guy, we get used to acting our part and also

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How To Move On After Infidelity

The topic of infidelity isn’t a pleasant one but it’s one that needs to be discussed.  There’s no point pretending it doesn’t exist, but rather than talk about how terrible

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How To Come Back From A Dating Siesta

If you’ve been looking for love for a long time without success, or you’ve decided that after a recently ended relationship you need a break from dating, then coming back

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How To Love After Loss

Losing love unexpectedly or through no fault of your own can be heart shattering. The experience makes us vulnerable, wary of opening up and disbelieving of the possibility that both

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10 Spontaneous Things To Do This Summer

Make this summer one to remember by being spontaneous and doing all those things you’ve thought about, but never tried. You have little to lose and a whole lot to

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Your Boyfriend Is How Young?

If you’re a woman with a significantly younger partner, you may be familiar with the term cougar being used to describe you.  Not all women find it flattering being named

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How To Know If Someone Is Right For You

As intuitive and self-aware as you may be, assessing whether a partner is right for you can be a delicate process.  Most of us can get through a few dates

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How To Establish Trust In New Relationships

Without doubt, one of the biggest challenges at the start of a relationship is learning if and how to trust your new partner.  This can be especially tricky if you’re

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How To Date Someone From a Different Culture

Media representations of couples from different cultures are becoming more common in today’s society and the majority of us no longer give it a second thought. Like most situations however,

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Wait, Your Girlfriend is How Young?

Dating within our age range is, when you think about it, quite a logical thing to do.  It means that our journey in life can perhaps sync more easily.  When

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Wait, Your Boyfriend Is How Old?

It’s far more common in society to witness women dating considerably older men than it is to see young men dating older women.  However unfair or inaccurate it may seem,

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Help, My Relationship Is Ending

Ending a relationship can be one of the hardest things that we do in our lives.  Whether the decision to split is mutual or one-sided, it’s never easy and the

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Changes to Expect in Your Relationship

It’s inevitable that over time your romantic relationships will change.  It happens with familial relationships, our friendships, even with our work colleagues.  Change is a natural part of growing and

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How To Continue The Romance After Valentine’s Day

After the hype of your Valentine’s Day celebrations, however long these last for you, it’s extremely easy for the romance to simmer down without either of you even realising it’s

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Your Practical Guide To Valentine’s Day

There are a ton of different gifts and activities that over the years have become standard fare for Valentine’s Day.  So much so, that many of us don’t expect anything

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How To Be Single And Still Have a Life

Following on from our popular article How to ditch the ‘I can’t, I’m single’ excuses we’ve put together a list of some of our member’s most common challenges when wanting

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How To Ditch The ‘I Can’t, I’m Single’ Excuses: Sundays, Eating Out, Going To The Movies

As a single person you very likely have a list of activities that you won’t do, or will only do reluctantly.  Whether the limits you’ve set yourself are conscious or

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Your first Christmas as a couple

With the Christmas season upon us, there are the inevitable questions of where you’re going to spend the festive days and who’s friends and families get added to the visiting

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How to get through the party season if you’re single

From mid-December until roughly the first week or so of January, you most likely wont be able to move for party invites.  People have time off and understandably want to

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So, You’re Dating My Mother?

This blog we’re sticking with the theme of helping men to understand what’s important to the other males in their partner’s life.  Following on from our <em>So, you want to

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So, You Want To Date My Daughter?

There's a vast array of female dating experts and matchmakers who can write skilfully about love and relationships.  We offer advice to men about grooming and manners, and even go

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Having Sex With Someone New

The question of when and if to have sex with someone for the first time is always going to elicit different answers and opinions from people you ask.  It’s one

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Men: How To Pick The Right Partner

Men are given a raw deal in society sometimes.  They can be depicted as superficial when choosing the right partner and are often accused of favouring looks or age over

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Kiss and Make up Day

Kiss and make up day this August 25th is a time for you and your partner to revisit the days when fights or disagreements were ended with passionate displays of

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Romance Awareness Month

It’s Romance Awareness Month this August, which on the one-hand sounds beautifully exciting and on the other, like a campaign for some mildly awkward syndrome. The biggest question from those

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Your first couples’ holiday

So, right now you’re dating. You’re seeing each other a few times a week, have probably stayed at each other’s houses and maybe even had a weekend away together. Now,

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International Kissing Day

When events pop up in our calendar that signal as much romance as International Kissing Day, it’s near impossible to not get involved in the love fest. Kissing, whether gently

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The Need For Acceptance In Relationships

The word ‘acceptance’ can have so many different connotations when used in terms of human behaviour and experience.  No matter how important we know it to be in almost every

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Dating When You Have a Fear of Rejection

In life there are a multitude of reasons why we stop ourselves from having certain experiences or getting involved in particular situations.  Usually they have very little to do with

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How to Winter-Proof Your Summer Romance

The approach of summer is a part of the year that most people await with anticipation. Past summers are remembered for their excitement, those memories bringing the promise of fun

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Berkeley and The Chapar!

Berkeley International has teemed up with The Chapar to offer our clients a personal styling service for men>. The Chapar concept originated from a father and son who believed that

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4 Tips to Make Summer Dates Sizzle

Dates in summertime have the wonderful advantage of relaxed atmospheres, warm sunshine and seemingly endless possibilities for fun and adventure.  With this can come the easy feeling that anything goes

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The Words That Are Getting in The Way of Your Dating Life

&nbsp; It’s important to maintain a healthy and positive attitude when dating and yet, it can be so easy to let this slip.  When we’ve been single for a long time

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How to Enjoy Single Life

It’s understandable that being single isn’t something people always aspire to.  Life is for sharing and when we have no one to accompany us on our path it can feel

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How to Begin Again After Divorce

No one in love gets married and expects for it to end.  We enter into long term relationships with the best intentions.  We want to make them work, to live

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How to be Yourself Whilst in Love

Falling in love should mean that someone has become a part of your life and can share it with you.  What it shouldn’t mean is that your personality is automatically

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A New Flame: Rules to Revamp your Relationship

A sure fire way to meet the wrong person or scare off the right one, is to approach your dating life with an air of desperation. Wanting to be with

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Top 10 ways to stay connected when dating long distance

Top 10 ways to stay connected when dating long distance The term long distance relationship or LDR really has a new meaning in the 21 century. Although being part of one

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Why You Should Use a Matchmaker

When people are considering their dating options they usually have a preference as to how they’d like to meet a partner.  The number one desire is for it to happen

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Old School Moves Every Man Should Hold On To

We’re in an age where many of the long established rules and expectations of gender and dating are either disappearing or evolving to fit a new generation.  Women need not

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Men, This is What Women Really Want On a Date

There are a few stages in the dating process that everyone has to go through and no two dates are ever the same.  The interesting thing is that on paper

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4 Things Every Man Must Know Before Going on a Date

When it comes to dating there are certain pieces of advice that are helpful across the board, to both men and women.  Whether it’s your first date ever or you

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Leap Year: Should a Woman ever Take Control of Love?

The short answer to the question of whether a woman should ever take control of her love life is yes, of course she should.  It’s incredibly important for women to

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The Dating Files 4: When The Date is Over

There’s a lot of information and advice written about how to find a date, where to have it, what to wear, how to present yourself or how to behave.  Yet

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The Dating Files 3: The Joy of Dating

When people think about dating, it’s very rarely the positive elements that spring to mind.  It has us recalling wasted evenings that could, in hindsight, have been put to better

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The Dating Files 2: Owning Your Dating Decisions

Throughout history dating has always been an important stage within people’s lives, so much so that choosing a partner was often removed from the hands of those doing the actual

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The Key to Balancing Your Busy Life With Your New Partner

How to balance your busy life with your new partner? For members of the dating world who have everything except time, the logistics of creating solid and meaningful connections can be

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The Dating Files 1: Why You Need Help Finding a Date

When we’re young, the concept of ‘help’ is extremely prevalent in our lives. From day one we’re assisted with doing the things we cannot figure out, or can only do

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Why Finding The One Can Be Difficult

Why Finding The One is Difficult For You Most men and women will have an idea or image of their perfect partner, with anything outside of this being classed as a

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Traditional Dating

Is It Time for a Return to Traditional Dating? Tinder, the online dating app, burst onto the scene in 2012 and has been making the news ever since. Sometimes, however, the

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Online Dating Security

Security in the Online Dating Age: Are Your Details Safe? The Ashley Madison hack has been all over the newspapers recently. The website that allows married people to sign up to

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The Gender Divide

Men &amp; Women's Dating Wishlists Revealed We reveal the truth behind what men and women really look for in a partner. Today, the influence of social media means dating is a minefield, making

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Online Dating Problems

Why Does Online Dating So Often Fail? Online dating is becoming more popular than ever, with more people giving it a try to see if they can find that someone special.

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Rules to Reignite Your Relationship

Whether you are married or in a partnership, a long-term relationship offers both parties companionship, friendship and security. Whilst these elements are an integral part of a relationship, they can

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New Partnership with Inner Place

Berkeley International is teaming up with specialist concierge Innerplace to ensure that you choose the perfect spot in London whilst you are out on a date. They will take as

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Brussels Office opens

“If you can easily afford a nice car, but you have no one sitting next to you…it doesn’t feel good,” says Geneviève Heintz, who along with her business partner Annemieke

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