Matchmaking Agencies Vs. Exclusive Dating Sites – Which Is Better?

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If your busy, high-flying career places huge demands on your energy, it can be hard to make time for other areas of your life, not least finding a partner with whom you can celebrate the good times, and to provide comfort if things get tough.

If you find yourself in this situation, however, there are things you can do to find love proactively, rather than sitting and waiting for it to come to you, or hoping to run into Mr or Ms Right at the gym or work. Dating apps might work for some, but can be time-sapping, superficial and, ultimately, disappointing. It’s easy to become desensitised to the endless scrolling, ‘winking’ and so on.

For the senior executive specifically, with little time to mingle, better options might include a professional matchmaking service or an exclusive dating site. Here, we look at the pros and cons of each to help you make an informed decision.

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Exclusive dating sites

These are for those searching for solid relationships rather than casual meetings. The emphasis is on compatibility, shared values and introducing singles who are serious about finding a long-term, committed partner. Matching is typically based on compatibility scores, to ensure at least a decent chance of a good connection.

Matchmaking services

These professional services help people find life partners by using their expertise and networks to make introductions. There are no algorithms or random encounters as there can be with apps. Instead, the focus is on understanding the client’s unique preferences and relationship goals. It’s a highly personalised service which could suit motivated yet busy singles perfectly. Think of it as having your own romantic PA!

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The pros and cons of each

1.) Cost: It’s true that matchmaking services sometimes cost more than membership of an exclusive dating website. However, a financial commitment signifies determination to find a long-term relationship. And, after all, what could be more worthy of investment than your long-term happiness? Equally, you’ll be introduced to those who’ve made a similar commitment. Higher costs can also deter scammers.

2.) Numbers: An exclusive dating website could put you in touch with thousands of possible matches, and some may even claim to have millions of users. But matchmaking services tend to choose from a smaller, more exclusive pool of people, and the chances of compatibility are potentially greater. Some matchmakers limit themselves to certain groups. It comes down to the old question of quantity over quality.

3.) Chances of success: Both methods can lead to successful matches. But the more personalised, strategic approach of matchmaking services, and their often higher track record, can mean a higher level of success compared to online solutions. One figure even puts matchmaking as having a greater than 80% success ratio, as opposed to apps, whose success rate hovers at around 12%.

4.) Level of personalisation: On this side of things, matchmakers always come out on top. Most ask you to create a detailed personal profile outlining your idea of your perfect partner. You also get the personal touch in terms of being able to speak to a dedicated human contact. So they will be on hand with support and advice, and take the time to understand who you are, what makes you tick what you need from a partner, and what you want to give in return.

5.) Security: Websites will have measures in place to protect clients’ data, and most take safety and security seriously. But some are still flooded with fake profiles, many of which can lead to disappointment on a number of fronts. For their part, professional matchmaking service vet everyone thoroughly before accepting them as a member, giving added peace of mind.

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In summary, for many who are looking for love, especially those with busy careers, the more tailored approach of an elite matchmaking provider may well offer the best solution, and the easiest way to be put in touch with the kind of people you want to meet.

At Berkeley International, we take an exclusive, highly personalised approach to matchmaking. With an unrivalled reputation across international borders that speaks for itself, we’ve been established for more than two decades and have unique expertise in matching high-flying professionals.

Before we do anything else, we’ll take the time to understand exactly what you need. We’ll then come up with a bespoke package and fees tailored to your unique requirements.

Get in touch today for a confidential consultation.

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